
Warm greetings again.
In continuation of my previous reflection on avoiding comparison, I would like to humbly share this short piece to help us all deeply understand:
What is it we’re really chasing, and where do we start losing ourselves until we begin comparing?
So, after all, what is success?
Many people believe that success is having a lot of money, being famous, finishing first, or being admired by others. But the truth is — real success is not just about reaching high places, it’s about becoming who you were created to be.
💡 True success is:
-Becoming who God designed you to be, not a copy of someone else.
-Fulfilling your unique purpose, even in silence.
-Living with integrity and discipline, whether seen or not.
-Bringing value and kindness to others, not just gaining for self.
-Having peace in your soul, even if the world is loud.
-Overcoming fear, doubt, and pressure, one small win at a time.
-Measuring progress by your growth, not by someone else's journey.
Often, we start comparing because we don’t clearly understand what success truly means.
We think we are “failing” simply because we haven’t done what someone else has done.
But maybe we’re only “failing” because we’re using the wrong definition of success.
Comparison is the result of confusion.
When we forget that we each have a different assignment, different timing, and different grace — we begin to doubt ourselves, copy others, and even lose hope.
Dear TSF Family, I hope this message reminds us all to redefine success, not by the world’s voice, but by truth and purpose.
Let’s stop comparing. Let’s stay focused. Let’s grow faithfully, in our own paths.
Thank you for walking with me in this journey.
With love and reflection,
Jeremiah Songela