My name is Doreen Tango, a first-year student at the Institute of Finance Management. I would like to share some of the challenges I encountered shortly after completing my A-level education. During this period, my family faced continuous conflicts that placed a significant strain on decision-making for my siblings and me. This challenging time forced me to learn how to make positive, independent decisions, especially in social matters, and strengthened my determination to overcome obstacles.
Another experience that had a lasting impact on me was when my aunt surprised me with the offer of a gift after I performed well in my A-level examinations. Her encouragement and generosity made me feel both motivated and appreciated, which inspired me to continue striving for excellence. Living away from my parents taught me self-reliance, as I had to manage my own well-being and responsibilities. This experience made me realize how much I’ve grown and that I am capable of guiding others, not only those younger than me but also my peers and elders.
Finally, I gained valuable leadership experience through my involvement in school. As a student leader, I focused on fostering confidence among other leaders by setting an example. My efforts helped students understand their rights and responsibilities within the school and the wider community. At home, as an older sibling, I guide my younger siblings on how to support our parents and be obedient and responsible in all aspects of family life.